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Hi Karen!
Well, after I sent the text asking how he was feeling I got one back saying he had a really bad hangover, it went 'Oh my god, in a world of pain right now-had a pretty hectic night, had a mate that had a massive car crash while under the influence, how u feeling?'. I waited about half an hour before texting back (I didn't want to seem too keen!) and I wrote 'feeling fine! was up til about 4 working and I've just been to get the papers-it's such a nice day! Will your friend be ok?'. I got one back immediately going 'have to wait and see, pretty scary. Yeh the suns amazing-have put a mattress out in the front of our house and am making the most of the rays, feel free to join in, bikinis only'
Eeek! I didn't know what to say to that so I left it about an hour. The thing is I didn't want to go round to his flat because he lives with 3 other guys who I just knew would know exactly what was going on and if I did meet up with him i would have wanted it just to be me and him. I waited about an hour and texted back going 'you work on your tan and i might pop round later but no bikini though! x' I got nothing back (bastard!) and even if i did go over there i had loads of work to do so i probably wouldn't have had the time. i texted back about 45 mins later going 'Hey, can't make it round i'm afraid but am working on the grass in the village so feel free to come and say hi if ur passing!'
Nothing back.It's now the next morning and still nothing. i had a massive chat with my flatmate and i think we might have come to a conclusion about him. I think he might only be after one thing. I do think he fancies me but wants to keep it simple so that perhaps he won't have any feelings by the time he leaves??? The fact that he has been texting every time saying oh come over if you want etc means he does want to see me but that he is still only after one thing. My faltmate thinks that the other night when he texted at 3, he wanted to find out whether i was out that night and therefore if i wanted to meet up. We are definitely playing games with eachother (aren't we?) by him being nice and flirty with me when we go to the bar he works, when he hit me on the head and wanted to find out who the guy was who i was with. but by inviting me round he doesn't have to make any effort and i want him to as i don't want to make all the effort. by asking me round and then i always say no is playing i suppose in his eyes but truthfully i didn't want to go round there-if anything i want ed to meet up on our own. but he's never suggested that. i'm going out on Thursday and will text him then asking what he's up to. i don't want to have a one night stand with him i just want to have some fun and hopefully this will happen! what do you think? Do you think he just wants some fun so he won't get too attached? is that why he hasn't asked me out for a drink?
Thanks Karen!:)
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You know Daisy, I really don't know. He doesn't really seem to be seeing anyone else does he? I mean you did see him with that girl the one time. I'd let him know that you aren't comfortable seeing him at his place amongst the roomies. I'd text him soon and just ask him to meet you for a drink. Even if only a quick one and see what he says. Maybe he could meet you before he goes to work...like an hour before so you have an escape if things don't go well but, you can make a date for Thursday if it does. I wouldn't go for a one night stand either. Let him know that if your able and see if he's still interested. That will tell you!
PS. A little flirty game playing is okay I think, Keeps you interested and he is definitely intrigued as you are I think. :)
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