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Ok well see my dad cheated on my mom, my dads a teacher at my school and he did a teacher from my school and my dad wont even take time to think about me and my two sisters, he keeps saying to my mom, he loves that lady, and we all hate her, and because of his foulishness I have to move 4 hours from my small town and I don't want to I find it supper hard having to move away leaving my friends and my dad here all alone I don't wanna move but I have to I really need help going through this I have to go see a counsler and a doctor because I'm so stress I'm making my self sick...iunno how but I go see my doctor almost every week....it sucks and I hate it I don't like being sick I just want everything to go away..can anyone help me??
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First, think about how much your mom and dad love you. Your dad probably should pay a little attention to you and your sisters but remember that he has things going on too. Try to relax and calm down. It is hard trying to not think about it but do things to make you stop thinking about it for a little while. Talk to your mom about it and see how she is dealing with it. Start a journal where you can let all the extra feelings out without stressing. If you start stressing, take deep breaths and just close your eyes for a couple of minutes. It will amke you feel better, your siblings will feel better, and also your parents.
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Let's learn how to use correct grammar and puncuation first, if we don't understand what you're saying then we can't help. I think you should try telling your parents how you really feel about all this or write it out to them. I believe parents can be very selfish especially in your case. The kids have minds and feelings too!
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Keep seeing your doctor.
Slap your dad in the face, hogtie him to your cieling fan. THen super glue his face to the cieling. Just think about it. Its pretty funny.
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This is an all to common problem, you hear about it all the time. When it happens to you and your family, it sucks.
What your dad did was wrong, and he has no right for putting your family through this.
Talk to your mom, maybe you can move to a different house, ask her if you can finish school there. Tell your dad how you feel too. Let him know how upset you are.
Couseling is your best option. Look around near you, and see if there are family cousnling centers. I've been to one, and they really help. Or even talk to your school guidance counselor, another adult, or even your friends. Talking to people really helps. This isn't an easy situation for anyone to go through. Just keep your head up and stay strong.
Hope I helped!
-Justine
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I know this feeling well, and, well, it's not a very good feeling, is it? Feeling that you can't do anything. I'm very sorry that you have to be going through it.
My suggestion is that you first talk to your mother about what's happening. She might be able to help you a little bit, despite the fact that it's often really hard to talk to moms. Ask her if she'll let you go see a counseler or a psychologist for the stress.
Another suggestion is that you start doing things to help yourself. You may not know it, but <b>you</b> can help yourself with a lot of these issues. You can start a journal, which might be quite relieving--or you can get a new hobby. Little things like that, a sport, knitting, writing, playing an instrument are good for taking stress away. I've gone through hard times like this, and I find that when I just sit down and play my trombone or paint or run, the stress kind of melts away into what I am doing.
It may not help completely, but I guarantee that it will help a little if you find something you enjoy doing. I wish you luck, and I wish there were more I could say.
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