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do i tell the guy i work with that i really like him or do i just keep it to myself? most of the time he acts like he hates me but like today he gave me a hug and i was like "aww" so im so freaking confused right now its not even funny!!! then his friend stated coming up to the movies and talking to him and he would talk to me and he seems really cool. GOSH!!!!! i dont know what to do i really like the guy i work with but then again i like his friend...if someone could give me some advice it would really help me out. thank you!!!
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You should tell the guy you like how you feel. If you don't, I bet you will regret it in the future. Even if he turns you down, You might could date his friend. No matter what, I am sure you will end up with a guy. A lot of guys I have noticed tend to be mean to girls because they secretly like them. I guess it is kind of their way of getting your attention.
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I don't think the problem is whether or not you should tell him. I think its that you need to set your emotions right and decide WHO you like. I understand teenagers [I am one] have a hard time keeping horemones in check, but its really a little out-of-hand if you like a guy AND his friend, you know? It could get ugly. So think about it and go with your heart, for the most part. Then think again, and think that if its worth it? Are they right for you? And let me tell you, good traits and no flaws and a good person doesn't make someone the right person for you. So be careful, and don't hurt yourself and others, make good decisions. Good luck, sorry if I came on a little harsh.
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I think you should just be friendly with them. Get to know them both. When one of them asks you out then you go. If you have a great time you go again if not then you don't. I wouldn't worry about making a decision about which one is best or telling them about it. If you like them they will pick up on it and ask you out if they feel the same. :)
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I think that you should go talk to him on about how you feel for him, if yor lucky, he mite get it, if not, theres nothing to do guess. Well youll probably have many more crushes in your life, its unexpected, it doesnt matter if he rejects, i mean like theres other guys for you out there.
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Well you know some guys act like they hate a girl so that their true feelings don't show, so maybe he secretly really likes you. Another sure sign that he likes you is if, even though it's like he hates you, he's always trying to get your attention while doing that. I think you should just pluck up the courage to tell him because you liked him first and the signs are there. You'll regret it if you don't tell him, so just go for it!!
Plus, even if he turns you down, you can still go for his friend. Either way you should end up with a guy that you like in the end, so really your a very lucky person :-)
Good luck, hope it turns out okay
Claire xx
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