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Friends, Lovers, What Now!!
I have been friends with a guy for 2 years and we have had little crushes on each other, well FINALLY! he asked me out and i was totally all for it until i woke up the next morning and went to church and saw him.It was so awkward betwee us and we finally broke up after a DAY!! we both had had second thoughts and promiced to still be friends, but the thing is we're not acting like we did before we dated and it realy upsets me ALOT!! I'm acting like i did before but he is making me feel funny like nothing will ever be the same ever again and i don't want that to happen becuase we have such a good friendship and i don't want to lose that be i cherish it alot! Help what o i do!!1
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he sounds like a loser
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Hey! don't give up on this guy! Talk to him and ask him to go out for a movie and hang out. it will amke you seem more like friends and you will get to know eachother better. I have a friend who dumps girls after like 2 days and they are still friends afterwards, they just aren't dating.
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Actually this happened to me somewhat too. my friend and I went out for i think 2 days... and it was distarous. we were avoiding each other then one day he just goes "hi" to me, and from there i knew it was ok.. and it has been since then. Your situation doesnt seem so simple. You too are probably not acting like friends anymore becasue you are both afraid you like the other person still (or that they like you, or don't like you). My suggestion would be to just talk to him, and say "i know things havent really been the same since we broke up. I just want us to be friends like we used to be, and also just able to talk to one another. If there's anything you want to tell me, get off of your chest please do" if he does have sumthing to say listen and remain calm, whatever it is. if he doesnt.. then just go on acting like you normally would to him.. eventually he'll follow and things will be back to normal.! Hope i could help! let me know how this works out, and if you need anything else, ask me a question or AIM me at SqueakyShoes567
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