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Inexperienced but really enticed. (I'm 14, female)
I met a boy at a battle of the bands 2 months ago. We didn't really talk then, but he was really cute. Recently I found his MySpace & LiveJournal and he accepted my add. He told me I looked familiar and the conversation just went from there. He told me my picture was 'insanely hot' and it was like he was lithium and I was chlorine, if you know what I mean..okay I'm a nerd.
But anyways, my favorite song of all time, he can play on the guitar. He owns a leather jacket. He likes the Libertines and numerous other bands I adore as well. He LIVES for music and is really intelligent and random, just like me. We began talking about how we'd live together in a one room apartment with a big sofa, drinking and smoking and sleeping to pass time and prowling the nyc scene at night and living off cheese and coffee and making beautiful art together....it was intense. He told me out of the blue he thought I was really cute.
Now I have never had this happen. He is my dream guy and he wants to hang out or go any rock show I say. It might actually work out for once with a guy, and believe me, I'm not lucky. My question is...where do I go from here? And what do I do when I finally hang out with him?
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Well, he's interested in you if he wants to hang out with you, so just be yourself!! (Go to the rock show!!!)
Hm... if you want to go for the extreme, kiss him during the concert or whatever.... Or you can tell him you like him... or something like that (though talking is hard when the music is really loud... like it ususally is...)
To me, it sounds like he likes you back, and that will work out really well if he's your dream guy... so tell him you like him! you know you want to!
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He owns a leather jacket? Great, you should surely go out with this man. For the leather jacket.
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It all sounds wonderful, but I have to say my gut reaction was be careful. Before you fall hard, make sure you know what you're getting into. You've basically formed your relationship with this guy over the internet, and you must remember that it's possible to be whoever you want online. When you meet up with him again, make sure it's a public place. As you're getting to know each other, keep your guard up a little. As you get to know him better in person, and if it's still feeling wonderful, which I hope it does, then all will be good.
And I must say I found the lithium/chlorine line so adorable!
Now, how close do you live to each other? Can you meet up for coffee sometime? Or at a mall? Or like he suggested, a rock show. If he invites you to do any of these, I say go for it. But maybe bring along a friend the first time.
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it shouldnt be anything new, make a plan to go see a show together, and when you do hng with him the most important thing to do is to act yourself because chances are that he'll like you more if you do that. bring a friend if youre too shy. good luck!!!<3
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okay well fist if he already TOLD you that you were "insanely hot", then why was it "out of the blu" when he told you that you were cute?
be yourself... or whatever he wants you to be... you seem like that kind of person
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