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Heartbreak By Rumors
I was with a guy named Liam back in December. We were doing great, until my ex boyfriends sister told Liam that I cheated on him with my ex boyfriend. Liam and me split a week afterwards because of that. Now, 5 months later, my friend calls up with him on 3way on the phone with her and him, and now me. He tells me that my ex boyfriend (Richard) had talked to him a few days ago. Richard told Liam that none of what his sister said was true, and that me and Richard were over and did nothing before me and Liam even started going out. Liam told me he felt very bad that he broke up with me over a rumor. We started going out that night, after he heard our song over the phone that I was playing for him, which he asked me out within 10 minutes of the ending of the song. Its been a day and a half, and he already thinks I haven't forgave him about the whole Richard thing, and he already had 2 of his best friends (one being my bestest friend ever, and the other being just a friend of mine) ask me if I would rather be friends with Liam than be with him. I love Liam, but we aren't working so far. What should I do?
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A day and a half? You shouldn't be worried over it.. he's just trying to make sure you really forgive him. Because most girls just say "It's fine." when it's not... He's just trying to make sure everything's okay with you.
Well, it'll always be awkward when you get back together with someone after 5 months... You said you guys were doing great-- you can't just expect to go back to the way you were. It takes time to get back to that... and forgiveness.
You should try and make things work with Liam, if you really love him. Stay with him, and see how it goes. You guys were great together before, so there's a huge chance you'll be great together now!
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It's only been a day and a half. Give it some time if you care for the guy. Relationships need work every single day if you want them to last.You also need to talk to him alone. Tell all the third party messengers very politley to butt out. :)
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hey kid, this guy knows he fucked up bigtime, he just wants to do whats right for you, forgive and forget, ya know?
this just means he is concerned about you and your feelings, hold onto this dude, because he's a rare one.
hell, i wouldn't even tolerate him if i was you, and i would have stabbed the sister for trespassing upon my sacred honor. i woulda messed her up so bad she would be in one of those special classes for the mentally retarded. but that just shows that you're a better person than i am. keep the dude, and good luck.
-hitler
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