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ok.. so there are these 2guys who like me. one of them ( lets call him brad )use to be my boyfriend. we went out for about 3 weeks and then he said we didnt see each other enough and he wanted to just be friends. he told me that whenever he got a car he would ask me back out because he still likes me alot. he calls me everyday and hes like my best friend. but there is also this other guy ( lets call him john ) who i like too. john and i talk all the time and we go places together too. the other day he told me that he loved me and that he really truely meant it. i told him i wasnt ready to say that because i still have feelings for brad. john got upset and wont talk to me now. i feel like i hurt him by telling him that but if i didnt i know it would have gotten worse. i tried telling brad about what happened with me and john, and he said he wasnt mad at me but at john. i dont want brad mad at john because they sre friends and i dont want john mad at me. what should i do?
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is it me or are there a lot of brads?? ok sorry off topic...anyways this is what i think-but i think you could go out with john because you and brad aren't going to go out until he gets a car anyway. john and brad are friends so they'd probably understand. but ehh, you sort of screwed that up lol with getting john mad at you and brad getting mad at john. try talking to john and tell him that you really do love him but that you like brad too. go out with him, if he'll let you, he might think of it as pity dating or just using him. try to be nice to him because he's mad at you, generosity leads to forgiveness faster. and explain to brad that he doesn't need to be mad at john. he shouldn't ruin his friendship just because of you (tell him that, it makes you sound like a better person haha...and it's also kinda the truth too). tell him that john deserves to be mad at you *tell that to john too* and apologize to both of them. apologizing might sound like the lamest thing ever but it seriously works like a charm. so do it and say a bit more stuff that what i gave you and good luck with john (and brad)!! :)
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