Okay here's what happend. . . well my ex boyfriend dumped me.. well his friends "dumped me" and he was like riley (the kid i like) and me (nicole) should break up and then he said riley said it was over when riley wasnt even in the room but then like 3 days later he said he liked me and always saids i love you and stuff but he saids he doesnt want people to know that he likes me..?? and i dont get it and he said he was gonna ask me out soon but he never did.. im so confused but today he said he loved me i juss wish he would ask me out! please please give me advice!!!!
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confused.. but love him =0\
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Work & School category? Maybe give some free advice about: Job Searches? shortiebebe021 answered Tuesday May 10 2005, 8:15 pm: sorry i'm a little bit confused myself with your question. you said that the friends said you and riely should break up, when you aren't even going out in the first place? sorry i don't really get that lol. well that is really weird, he says he likes you but doesn't want other people to know? and he won't ask you out?
why doesn't he want others to know he likes you? is he EMBARRASEd by you or something? have you ever done anything around him that totally made his face turn bright red?? that could be a reason. another reason is because that he wants to keep his love life private. he doesn't want his friends knowing and asking about it all the time. and he might be afraid of asking you out because you might spill that you two are going out. the last reason i can think of is that he's using you. does he make out with you or anything? if he does, he's probably using you only to make out with. he doesn't really love you, which explains why he won't ask you out. and also why he doesn't want others to know he likes you, because he doesn't, he only thinks you're "hot" enough to make out with.
the only way to relaly find out is to go up to him and ask him to choose one of those reasons. if he doesn't choose one and is like "look i just DON'T want to tell people okay!!! and i just DON'T want to go out with you! god it's not a big deal!" then something's up. it may not be bad, but there is a chance. if he does that, it's up to you to keep on continuing you "semi-relationship" with him. it's not going to be a very good one though, i can almost guarantee that. i hope i helped...good luckk!! :) [ shortiebebe021's advice column | Ask shortiebebe021 A Question ]
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