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Hey i think this advice column is great but i need some help. Here's my story. I am on track at school and i am on a medley team. (two laps around the track split up but 4 people) there is this girl who is not a good runner who says that she was signed up first to be on our team for 1 lap. and she wasnt here yesterday so we had this other girl go it with us. She is amazing and we all want her to stay. My whole group doesnt know what to expesially because one of our runners is best friends with the girl who isnt that great. What should we do? our meet is on monday!
signed-Track Troubles
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did that girl (the amazing runner) sign up? are they allowed to be on the team without signing up? if she did sign up, but that let's say "bad" girl did sign up first, it is fair that the bad girl gets to join the team. but she wasn't with you during a meet so that's a minus for her. maybe you could kindly suggest for her to join another sport she's better at? or could you just make this special and add her in? maybe you could make her a sub? i'm sorry those are bad...
if that amazing girl didn't sign up, you shouldn't have her join the team.
if she did sign up, but she signed up last then you should probably not have her join. it's just not fair to that bad girl then...(i know, it sucks but that's life )=)
if the amazing girl didn't sign up last but did sign up, maybe you should instead get rid of the person who signed up last? if you signed up last then nvm lol
ask the bad girl if she really wants to join track for the sport. maybe she only wants to join b/c one of her friends is in it. that could probably explain why she's bad.
sorry you may think i give horrible advice but i'm not really good in these situations. try browsing some of the highest rated advicenators. sorry!! i hope i helped though...=)
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