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losing a friend
I feel like im losing one of my best friends... and it makes me feel even worse that i'm losing her to a guy she met this year. Even one of my other friends admitted "yeah, she has replaced u wither her bf". One of the worst parts is that she doesn't tell me anything anymore eigther and we never hang out or at least... when we do her boy friend in a "politfully/mean" way says to go away so that they can cuddle. i feel like telling him that the only time i get to see her these days is when hes there and its not fair that he gets to hang out with her 24/7 and still complains and i never see her anymore! i've tried calling her to invite her over, but shes always busy. so i guess my question is...how can i make sure i we lose our friendship for good and how can we hang out more with her boyfriend also there constantly telling u to leave?
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First of all, you're not losing her. now that she has a boyfriend not all the attention is focused on you and you're probably not use to it. When her boyfriend tells you to leave I bet you anything she doesn't just let it happen easily. I'm thinking you should call her ahead of time and not just the day before/of because she obviously has a lot going on. You've probably already have let your friend know about how you feel so she's probably going to do anything in her way to make sure you're not feeling replaced because that is impossible. You've probably known her for a million years more than she has known her boyfriend so how could you even possibly think he could top all the fun times and inside jokes y'all have had. What are you doing still reading this! go call her up now and invite her!
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