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me and my boyfriend
i went to my boyfriends hometown (arkansas) last weekend and he was all over me and then one day i snapped at him (yelling) on accident and i think he took it defensive because now he is snapping at me and he isn't all touchy feely with me these past two days now that we are back in missouri! and he noticed that i yelled at him cuz he told his mom that i did! and he hasnt really been himself around me these past two days and i dont know what to do! should i apologize for what i did? or what? i am a 14 year old young lady and i dont know what to do!
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first of all, i gotta say i admire you! im 14 too, and you live in missouri and your bf lives in arkansas, and right off the bat thats a big committment. but you should definetly apologize because if you did it on accident and he is snapping at you most likely because he is mad at you, and he aint acting like himself because you aint apoligize, so you should definetly apologize and then if that dont work, then talk to him about it and see where it takes you. hope i helped!! ask me anytime!
-JoElen <33
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I think an apology would help. You also need to talk to him and let him know that people do sometimes have a bad moments where they may yell a little. It isn't something to blow out of proportion. If he's going to get that bent out of shape about it and an apology doesn't change things then I'd get out of the relationship all together. :)
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Well, I think instead of just saying "I'm sorry", you should really talk to him about what happened. Tell him that you feel that he has been acting differently lately and that you have a feeling it's because you snapped at him a few days back (which it might not be, it could be something else). See what he says then and go from there. I assume you are very sorry for snapping at him, so let him know how badly you feel for letting your feelings get out of control. I've accidently snapped at my boyfriend a few times, and afterwards, he'll act quiet or distant for awhile. When I notice, I'll ask him about it, apologize, talk to him, and then everything is back to normal! Hope everything works out for you!!
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I think you should probably apologise to him. Just say that you really didn't mean to snap at him and you're really sorry and you know that you were in the wrong. Say that you miss him being himself and it's made you realise how much he means to you! I'm sure he'll be fine about it if you're just honest with him! good luck
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