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Not sure about a crush ((sorry its such a long post))
Hi,I've read your advice and it is very good. :)
My name is Jessica and I'm 15 and female.
The thing is,I like this guy..lets call him Davey.Well, 'Davey' is a 16 year old male and I ride the same bus,we live in the same neighborhood,almost all of our classes on both A and B days are close together.
I know he likes some of the stuff I do: rock music,Invader Zim,playing instruments,etc...And I catch him looking at me during lunch and he almost always sits behind me on the bus.Hes very quiet and shy,and so am I..((Davey's 'clique' is somewhere between skater,punk and normal and mine it between gothic,punk,gamer and normal...if that matters at all))But we're both so shy,that we've never spoken to eachother! ((besides asking if we can sit next to eachother on the bus,etc.))A friend asked Davey a while ago if he liked anyone,and Davey told her he liked me.
But if he likes me,why hasn't he made a move to even speak to me?I'm very lonely but I don't have a high self-esteem at all...so I doubt I can make the first move...or is there anything I can do to seem like I want to talk to him?Or be more 'approachable'?
I've liked him for maybe a year and a half and I blush whenever anyone says his name or whenever I get a good look at him!
Please Help-Thanks!
-Jessica
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Sitting around waiting for him to approach you wont get you anywhere. You need to make the first move. Sit next to him on the bus and say something like
"Did you see (insert show) on TV last night?" or
"Have you got (insert band/singer)'s new album?" Or even better
"Have you seen (insert movie)Because I'd really like to see it." If he says he hasn't seen it but doesn't do the obvious and ask you if you want to go, just come out with it and ask him if he wants to go. Don't worry about making a fool of yourself, just go for it. Good luck.
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