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hey its me again.. remember with all the tami and carter and christina stuff? well today was really bad. everything has been back to normal for a really long time, until kinda now. i do this weird thing where i talk in my sleep, and supposedly one night a while back (according to tami) i rolled over mumbled and was like "carter do" which you would think itsnt a big deal but today she decides to tell a bunch of people about it at lunch and then a handful of people knew. now supposedly she told a big group of people about it and now its become that i really like him and dreampt that me and him got married and was saying carter i do. im really pissed off and i cant talk to her about it until 6:30 when she gets out of drill team stuff. idk what to do, how do i stop this stupid rumor? (which by the way carter heard and is probably freaked out by because i havent gotten to talk to him yet) what should i say to him about it? and what should i say to tami? i dont want to get in a fight but this is really stupid and it makes me SO mad. why cant people just accept that we're FRiENDS and thats all.
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Who knows, you have have been saying multiple things such as. Carter, do you like so and so? It's your dreams, you cannot control them. I have dreams all the time of other boys besides my boyfriend. Not like love dreams, but just like they're in my dreams. And I bet you anything Tami has had dreams of guys too, who hasn't? This rumor? You can't do anything about it but let it pass. If you hear someone whispering about you, you might go up to them and tell them it's unpolite to talk about people behind their backs.
Tami- she's your friend she she started the rumor? That's not very friend-worthy I say. I understand how you don't want to get in a fight, so I might as well scratch off some of my ideas. You might pull her aside and tell her what I said in my first paragraph about how people cannot control their dreams. Tell her, her of all people should know yall are just buds and nothing more. She doesn't seem like she's working hard to keep you as a friend after all she's put you through.
Carter- He doesn't know this isn't true yet? If so, oh my tell him. Tell him Tami twisted your words around and just tell him what you actually said. If you happen to remember your dream from that night, tell him what you actually dreampt. Tell him you still feel the same about him, nothing more and that the whole thing was a mix up and not to worry because you've got it under control :). ♥
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