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alright, i read your advice for someone with a problem similar to mine, and you've given excellent help in the past, so, with that, here's my problem. My boyfriend has been known to say mean things about me on occasion, and lately he gets mad at me over absolutely everything, making me feel like i'm this horrible person, and its completely wearing me down. The things he said about me were just a few times about 6 months ago...and the constant anger has been for the last month or so...we've been together for a year and a half so its not as though he's a bad person...i'm just not sure what changed, or why he's being the way he is. i really do love him and can't imagine being without him...but i can't continue to be treated this way because it tears me apart. i don't really have a specific question, i'd just appreciate advice on my situation. thanks so much! <3
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Can you sit down and talk to him? Do you think he feels guilt about something that happened about the time the changes started? Something changed for him about 6 months ago, you need to investigate and see what you can find out.
You don't give me any ages...could be something happened at work or school. A death of family member or friend, a divorce of parents? Anything could have set him off. Doesn't have to be guilty feelings either that is just a question to look into.
You need to have a long heart to heart. When he is in a good mood! Just tell him that you can't go on the way you are and that you would like things to be the way they used to be. Tell him you want to help. Maybe he goes through depressions or something.
I think a long talk is the answer. You shouldn't have to put up with his nonsense BUT you do have a lot of time invested in your relationship already. May just need a little maintenence. Hope this helped some. Let me know if I can be of more help. Let me know how it goes too if you can. Best of luck, you'll work it out.
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