ok there's this guy at my skool whos been there since the begining of skool, but he started out as one of "the big guys on campus" like kinda cocky and stuff. but like now that its gettin close to summer, it seems like when i see him or hear about him, he's changed. Like from really preppy to skater guy and cocky to nice and he stands up for christ and i respect that alot from a guy! but me, im just like, people know me, im kinda popular, but not like a mean girl u know wat i mean? im not the one all the guys go crazy for. the guy im talkin bout doesnt really pay much attention to me, but i think he's really sweet. wat shood i do? (i rate 5s!) :-) thanks yall
Additional info, added Tuesday April 12 2005, 10:29 pm: o yeah, one thing i forgot-->there's this dance this friday...and i know that guys are usually cocky around their friends, but is there any way for him to notice me without me acting like a dork or too noticable? (also another reason i think hes super sweet is cuz i dropped my books one time and he helped me pick them up :-D) thanks agian yall!. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? rainbowsend answered Tuesday April 12 2005, 8:50 pm: Wow. that's a pretty big change...
Do you know what church he goes to? You could consider inviting him to a youth group event with you- like if your youth group ever has field trips, bands, game nights- stuff like that.
You said he doesn't pay much attention to you- well, pay more attention to him. Start a conversation with him. Show interest in his hobbies/interests. Get your friends to talk to him.
Don't get discouraged if he doesn't automatically start to like you- or that when you start talking to him, you find he's not all that you think he is. Image isn't always everything. [ rainbowsend's advice column | Ask rainbowsend A Question ]
therocketsummer answered Tuesday April 12 2005, 7:55 pm: I think you should let him know you like him, not ubrutly, smoothly. Start little by like asking for the assignment or what a math problem answer is, that way he'll know your interested because out of all the guys you see in class, you ask him. Once he gets used to you talking to him about answers and math you can try saying hi in the hallways or something! If he has AOL, try and get a friend to see what he thinks about you. You probably want to do this in person because it's a lot easier to turn down something on AOL than it is in person. Get his s/n and start talking to him. Be respectful and nice, be interesting and interested in what he is saying! ♥ [ therocketsummer's advice column | Ask therocketsummer A Question ]
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