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hello,
ok my friend has a problem she likes this guy but she cant trust him at all ok.no one can really trust him i mean he has like gfs but umm when he does he flirts with everybody else and he has a crush on my friend but she doesnt want to go out with him because she cant trust him. she tried to advoid him but that didnt work lol. now shes gonna try to talk to him and tell him she just wants to keep it at a friends level. how can she do this without ruining the friendship.
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Why do you care? Shouldnt, if it was a problem for her, she be asking this question?
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She just has to do it and not worry about the results. Unless she wants him to bug her until he's tired of it.
She is right to avoid dating him.Relationships are nothing if you don't trust each other. :)
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Just get her to tell him that you dont want to be in a relationship at the moment and dont want to get involved, because you see each other more as friends.
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Well first off if he hits on girls all the time he is just an immature pimp who at the moment is probably recieving that glorious extra rush of testorone induced during puberty. So that means he is most likely used to rejection and will take it well as long she doesn't make him feel like an idiot. If im wrong then he's a faggot that i wouldn't want to be friends with
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It takes two people to ruin the friendship. And if her intentions are NOT to ruin it, and when she is honest with him about being friends, and he wants more than that, then yes, the friendship may be ruined, but it will be on him. And if he is that selfish, then who needs him.
She is right to keep him at a friendship only level. Girls, you have to learn to trust your instincts. If he really cherishes you, you will know it. He will make sure you know it. If he is a player and just wants to use you, you all get that message by his actions, and you know it in your hearts, but we all think that we will be the ONE to change him. That is why there is such a long line of broken hearts that follow a guy like that.
Michele
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