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my friends get me so0o mad
ok, me n my boyfriend went to the movies over the weekend wit some people and we were makin out right, well everyone was like watchin n by school today everyone knew about it and were like makin a big deal about it and it like gets me so0o mad, like the people i thought were my friends were talkin about me and sayin i'm like a f'n b**** n were like "if she didnt want people to find out y'd she do it in public" but it's like we had the back corner, these people were watching me, thats weird to begin with, i told them to stop and they didnt, its not my fault if i wanna do that with him but see the thing is if i tell my friends i wanna see a movie alone wit him they get mad that i'm goin without them, so like they're pretty much saying we're goin with you or we're gonna get mad at you but if u make out we're gonna talk about you. what do you think i can say to them b/c it gets me really mad, i'm on the verge of ditching all of them for completly differnt people, please help me.
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
OK...well, if you see people watching you while you're kissing your boyfriend, try and stop. It will make you uncomfortable to carry on, therefore ruining the kiss, and just give them stuff to talk about. You can always hold his hand.
Or, you could sit in front of your friends so you can't see them staring.
I think your friends are probably just worried that they're gonna lose you to this guy. Reassure them that that's not going to happen - next time they say 'we're comign with you', tell them that you need some alone time with your boyfriend for a change. Tell them that you're not ditching them but you'll have to if that's the only way you can get away from them. Arrange to go out with them the next day for a meal or a shopping trip, or even a girly night in some of the times that you go out with your boyfriend for something special so they don't feel left out. And for now, strengthen your friendships with other people, or make new ones - you can never have too many friends and you will have someone if you do end up having to ditch your current friends!
Good luck hun!!
Blessed Be,
Rach xxx
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