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ive been friends with this guy, addi. we've been friend since 1st grade (im 15 now) and our moms were really good friends to. about a year and a half ago he moved about 1 1/2 away. i used to go stay at his house almost every weekend. his mom treated me like her own daughter. then my mom and addis mom got in a fight back in october. and i havent been able to see him since. which is relly hard on me since hes one of my best friends and a huge part of my life is out there. i've talked to my mom about making up with his mom, but she refuses. i dont know what to do about this because everyone in his family and all of my friends out there mean a lot to me. any ideas of how i could fix this?
by the way-you give really great advice. :)
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Thank you very much for asking. When adults get in fights, its usually harder to make up like kids, and teenagers. To this day, I still feel unaware why, but you did the right thing by talking to her about it. But, maybe instead of just talking, maybe seriously sitting down, and telling her how much having this big family-like connection made you feel really happy. And just go on and tell her how its not worth giving each other the silent treatmentany longer because what everyone had was much more than giving up. Try telling her that you would have at least survived on seeing him if he lived near, but not being able to talk at all just kills you because you miss your friend. If she still won't go after asking her to just give this another try because it would mean a lot to you, ask her if you could at least be dropped off over there, because its not you or your friends' fault. I understand you want to fix it, but maybe you should try at least being able to see him for a start. And maybe you and your friend can make a plan at trying to put your moms' back together. Good luck, and thank you very much, if you have anymore questions, don't hesistate to ask, we don't have to be done with this question.
-TheTeenGirl
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