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i dont know what to do
Ok, i'm 13 i've been goin out wit this kid for almost 3 months now and I love him more then anything, but... when we go out he likes to put his hand on my boob, I tell him to stop and he does but then the next time we go out he does again. I guess i'm just scared with him doin that it'll lead to other things and personally i'm not ready to go farther, i know he should respect me and everything but he really does treat me great, it's just that one thing. I dont know what to do, am I wierd for thinking like that, please help me.
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OK, this guy obviously has no respect for you, or 'no' just isn't enough for him. You've gotta have a little bit more of a conversation with him about this - like, 'get your hands off me or you can forget about you and me/I'll kick your balls into next Tuesday', whatever, as opposed to 'don't'. It might just be that he's hoping your ready the next time you go out, but he shouldn't do ANYTHING until yuo say it's OK.
You've got to stop him doing this before it gets out of hand - you've said no, and no means no. He has got to realise that before he ends up taking it further and maybe even raping you. If he can't understand 'no' to a simple thing like that, what else will he do without your consent? Sorry if that shocks you or anything, but it's the blunt truth - you really have to do something before it gets out of hand. Make sure he understands that when you're ready you'll tell him, and then if he does it again, either slap him or walk out on him. You don't have to put up with that. I think you rock for knowing exactly what you are ready for and what you aren't - stick by that.
Good luck!
Blessed Be,
Rach xxx
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