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ok well my ex friend and i were friends ever since we were born!! and all the sudden july (which is the month of my b-day )we quit being friends. becuz we always plan stuff together like plan our b-days togetherand stuff and i had not seen her since feb we just talkd on the phone and online and stuff so one of her other friend came back from out of town the week we had planned our get together for my b-day and she said that she couldnt come becuz her friend got back from out of town. well we have planned that get together for 2 months. and i was mad and she said i shouldnt get mad that she has other friends. Do u think i should be mad??
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Well if you had it planned for longer than 1 month than she should've came, even if she had to bring her other friend or leave or other friend at her house for a couple of hours. You have every righ to be mad...I'd be pissed.
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Yes, you have every right to be mad. Your friend bailed out on you without notice. Two months is a long to plan a get together, the least she could have done is still come to the get together and invite her friend. You need to call her up and explain to her how important this get together is to you, and ask her if she would be willing to bring her friend to it. Let her know that you aren't mad because she has other friends, you are mad because you put your time and effort into something, not just for yourself but for her too, and she totally brushed you off without taking into consideration your feelings. If you friend still refuses to come, or to compromise with you, then I think you need to find some a new friend.
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