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You were such a big help


Question Posted Wednesday March 23 2005, 12:18 pm

I wanted to tell you thank you for the help with my other question and I also wanted to ask you personally another.
My so-called best friend and I have been "best freinds" for about two years. We've laughed, cried, prayed together. We were insepertable. Well over the summer I moved again and it was really tough on our friendship, but we did keep it together. Well yesterday I called her to talk to her because I hadn't in almost 2 weeks and she told me that her mom didnt like me. I was a bit confused because her mom had always said that she was very please that Claire had a friend like me. So I am very confused. THen later in the conversation she told me that when we first met she thought of me as "a person she would never associate hereself with" because I'm really loud and outgoing and she is really quiet and shy. But in the it seemed like she had pretended to be my friend all that time. And it really hurt. So my question is do you think I should be upset at her or was it just a misconception?


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_eMiLy answered Wednesday March 23 2005, 12:47 pm:
I don't think you should take it personally, she probably just thought you weren't the kind of girl she could see herself being friends with or something. So I wouldn't worry about it :)
but if you're that worried about it you could ask her about it. Just ask her what she meant by saying that and seeing as you guys were bestfriends for about two years I don't think anyone could pretend to be someone's friend for 2 years nevermind BESTfriend and if someone has the guts to do that they have some serious issues of their own.
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