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Question Posted Sunday March 20 2005, 11:42 pm

me an this guy have been good friends since we were little.. here lately things have been gettin pretty intense.. i think hes trying to be with me and i think i wanna be with him too ..

at the same time another one of my best guy friends is telling me about how jealous he is of every other guy i get with. You can be jealous but hes like my best guy friend do you think that his jealousy means he wants to be with me.

Then theres another guy who i have been with before, he wants to be ftf but i want a relationship and i dont think that he wants that. What should i do there..
I also have another guy who i was hanging out with for a while and he and i messed with eachother one night, well ever since he has been real shady but then at times hes real sweet, i really think i like him but then again i have no idea. He doesnt want anyone to find out about us and what we did.
THen theres more.. another guy the one i lost it to is always callin me an checkin up but hes known as a player should i give him wat he wants .. and be with him or not ? I am just so lost and confused too much drama

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karenR answered Monday March 21 2005, 2:37 pm:
I won't have the most popular answer for you I can bet!

I think you can be friends with all of them. But, until one of them turns into the love of your life....don't have sex with them.A big reason for not is that you will never know if they love you or they just want sex from you.I think you may already have a couple who think along those lines. Just hold off until you find someone genuine.

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Altazuma answered Monday March 21 2005, 3:17 am:
I'm not sure what to advise because I'm not sure what your questions is.

You "think" you want to be with the first guy.

The "jealous best guy friend" probably does want to be with you, but that doesn't mean you have to. You don't even mention whether you are interested in him like that.

You want a relationship with one guy that might just want to be free to see others. Nothing you can do there except tell him what you want and if he wont go for it, you can't change him.

The next two you seem unsure whether you like them but you seem OK to shag them. Again, not sure what your question is for them either.

If you want some general advice, find out whether the guy you want to the relationship with is happy to do so. If yes, then you have to give all the others away so that answers the rest of it. If not, then consider the others and decide if you actually want any of them. Not whether they want you, it seems clear they are OK with being with you, but you haven't actually decided whether you like them or not. Until you do decide, how about not going with any of them?

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Sherry answered Monday March 21 2005, 12:36 am:
Omg, I dont care if you rate me bad. But your a slut! Omg your like juggling around 5 boys? Well two of them for sure just want to sex you and the others, well..who knows.

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