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dep-sis


Question Posted Saturday March 19 2005, 4:50 pm

hey,im 13, my sis is very mean and hits me alot wen she gits mad. i think im depressed, or was, because i would cry alot(not on period) my mom and sis thought i was, or am depressed. at home and when im around my sis/ family i would/do get sad, irritable, and want to laeve. im only happy at skool, on the bus, or talking on th phone.my sis gets mad wen im on the fone(2 times in the last 2 months) she talks 4 bout 2 hours every day. once she yelled and pulled out the fone cord. i used to have to depend on her 4 friends and she was happy. but now that i have friends(she said this stuf 2 my face) she doesnt like it. lik now that i dont obey her every command lif sucks. she also tells me how uncool i am, wat friends of mine she doesnt lik, and how cool they are. she always makes me feel bad about myself. i tell her she does, but she wont listen 2 me, shell just come bac w/ something mean 2 say and ill cry. wat do i do?-please answer, and ive tried telling her how i feel.
~*sad*~
p.s.-im a gurl-sorry sol ong


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Karen answered Saturday March 19 2005, 5:49 pm:
Aww, that really sucks and I'm really sorry that she is doing this to you. I'm guessing that she is older than you, right? Well, if talking to her and telling her how you feel doesn't help, then you need to talk to your mom. My younger brother made my life miserable and I told my mom that whenever he did or say something to me, I would write it down on a piece of paper and the time he called me a name or said something really hurtful to me. She didn't believe me at first but when I showed her this list, she then talked to my brother and things are going better now. Try doing that and maybe this will help your sister not ruin your life or say something mean to you. You could always tape her being mean to her and then you can show her the tape and she will then realize that what she is doing is wrong. Good luck!
-Karen

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