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omgosh you are really good at giving advice. this is really confusing. all three of them came to my party and it was fine and we had alot of fun. she didnt get mad until the next week.carters gf, christina, is trying to get carter to not talk to me, and tami already isnt, im not sure why tho. yeah ive been continuously told to "get new friends because im too cool for them, and that theyre too involved in stupid drama" but its hard, i mean theyre my best friends and there arent that many people you can just "be new friends with" you know?
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So is Christina "your friend", [ as i've been referring to her as? ]
Oh, I know exactly what you mean. It's so hard to get rid of the old, and in with the new. That's how life is, It's hard. I'm not saying to get new friends, because I personally don't know either of them.
Tami- She seems like a follower. I think that she followed Christina, and stopped talking to you, which isn't a very good friend. You want leader friends, who wont turn their backs on you when you need them most.
Christina, or your friend- She doesn't seem like the nicest person to deal with when she's upset, but I can't put either of them down, because once again, I personally do not know them and I wouln't want people critiziing me when they don't know me, or what i'm like. But from the looks of it, Christina is definatly a leader.
As for her trying to get Carter against you also, that is just plain wrong. It's one thing to be mad at someone, it's another thing to get others mad at them also. This here is a test of friendship. I think that Carter is a good friend, as i've been saying throughout this conversation, I can just tell. But this is a real test for him, Friend over girlfriend. You don't want to pressure him because pressure is bad for guys, girls can handle it better than guys. But you dinfatly don't want to pressure him, because he's got enough of that with Christina. But you can try and help Carter see it your way, not just what Christina says.
True, you might be too cool for them, but it doesn't mean give up when times are hard, it means work harder for what you want. and if what you want is your best friends to stay best friends, then you need to work for it. Don't be Pushy, and don't be rude. Keep your cool if you ever confront her, if she doesn't talk to you, don't try talking with her yet because she's not cooled down yet. Once again, girls need to cool down, be alone, just a little time to think. maybe soon she'll realize how a boy can't affect her friendship with you.
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