a while back i got hurt real bad by this guy. and i didnt really want to do the "dating" thing again for awhile.. but then it happened. i started dating this guy i had known for a while and im really happy with him. hes like my best friend. but theres one problem? he picks his friends over me..alot. and he says he really loves me..he'd do anything for me and all that stuff. and hes liked me for? as long as i can remember? but now that we've started dating, it seems like he could care less about me? but then one day he'll do the sweetest things? its so confusing. what do i do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? EliseGrayce answered Wednesday March 16 2005, 3:22 pm: Well... Some guys aren't comfortable smothering girls with how much they like you, and how much they want to be around you. As much as Im sure he would love to be around you all the time, he needs his friends also.. but so do you. If he chooses his friends, dont get mad... even if it frustrates you - just go hang out with your friends. Dont let him know its a big deal. You can only try so much though, your supposed to like a guy for imperfections... but if things dont come together maybe hes not the right guy for your lifestyle? I dono, just some things to think about... [ EliseGrayce's advice column | Ask EliseGrayce A Question ]
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