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i love him but...
ok ive been wit this guy for 3 1/2 months......i kno im to young to love someone but i seriously would be in a state of deppression without him......anyway ive been really mean to him lately like startin fights wit him for no apparent reason..and being sarcastic just to get him pissed..........lASt week i broke up wit him 3 times and we got back together but im so obsessed with him but i cant stop treating him this way.......it might be just because of my perod (i hope so) but im so mean and i dont want to lose him......how can i try to stop acting this way
plz help me
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I always used to do that, and i used to make myslef cry, and my boyfriend would get upset..That led to our breakup...and I think you just need to tell him that your moody and pmsing or something so he will understand..but really you need to stop being like this cause i can see you feel strongly about him, and you dotn wanna lose him...just think about how your making him feel!!
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one word. Midol
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I've had the same problem before, and it caused some serious problems. But, sometimes, when I feel like being mad, I just try thinking of how much I love my guy and how much I need him, and I start to tell him why I appreciate him so much, its like talking yourself out of being mad and thinking the opposite, don't try to pay attention to what next thing he says or does wrong, just focus on the present of things with you guys. Try telling him this, "Hey, I know thing havn't been working out mainly because of me, but I am willing to be better, and I was wondering if you could help me and support me on my decision and know that I'm trying not to be so picky and mean." That way, he'll know you're working on it. And you guys can get through it, good luck!
-TheTeenGirl
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Perhaps you two are spending too much time together. Wait until your period is over before spending a lot of time with him again. You could be becoming too dependent on the relationship, as well, in which case you might need to find some extracurriculars to keep you busy and still maintain a healthy relationship with your boyfriend. Do you know why you're being mean to him? Try to avoid it if you can.
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Don't break up with him, but just stay away from him for a while until your little mood swings go away so you won't be treating him this way!
♥ Always,
Maria
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