Hey latley ive been rele rele stressed about evrything and when i say that i dont mean like 1 thing i mean like mi whole life and there r only a few things that still make me happy and thats friends and girlfriend and music but now some of mi friendz r makin me stressed and sometimes mi gurlfriend does too now. Its gonna make me do somethin i dont wanna do and thats drugs and otha things, and latley ive been stealing mi bros cigs for me and i think that helps but i dont no what to do cause i rele dont wanna do this but i think it helps. mi friendz also say if i eva do cigs or drugs they will be mad at me so i cant tell ne one but i rele need help on this!plz write me as soon as i can cause i dont no what im gonna do next!help!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Health & Fitness category? Maybe give some free advice about: Health? Teza answered Saturday March 5 2005, 11:01 pm: Hi. I know what you are groing through. I go through the same thing all the time. If your friends make you stressed out and are kind of getting on your nerves for whatever reason then talk to them. If they are your closest friends they wont get mad at you and they will understand. If your girlfriends stresses you out maybe you have to tell her so she can change. If she gets mad or something then thats wrong. You guys could also take a lil break until things get better. Im sure she would understand what you are going through. I know you probably like her a lot but you dont want her to make you upset. She could also help you out if you let her know how you feel. Please dont ever do drugs or alchocol .. ( sry ii dont know how to spell it) I know that when you are mad and angry that you just want anything that you think might make you feel better. I smoke when I`m mad too and sometimes when I`m not. I know its totally wrong but still. I stoped now because I dont think theres a point to do it anyways. But.. please dont smoke because that could get you addicted and I dont care how much you smoke I just dont want you to! Who ever you are! If your friends say that if you smoke cigs or any drugs and that tehy will get mad at you its just that they care a lot about you and they dont want you to get hurt in any ways and trust me it can happen. When I used to cut or w/e I kept it a secret and then all of my friends found out and one of my best friends got mad at me. So dont keep it a secret because trust me your friends will find out! You wont have to keep it a secret tho because you will try not to do it. At least try your hardest. I hate to see my friends smoking or drinking or anything but when I do it its different. Think about it. You dont wanna lose any of your friends by this or even take the risk of them being really mad at you. Remember your friends and family all care about you. I know life is hard at times and I go through it every day but I get through it. I dont cut anymore because my friends kinda encouraged me to stop so I kinda did. The next time you are really upset talk to one of ur bestest friends .. the one that you can trust and that is always there for you. Also, you can try writing how you feel down in a notebook. I know it seems lame but it works. You dont think about doing anything else and it takes your anger out. You would be writing how you feel and it would just waste time and when you are done you wont even have the strength to smoke,drink or w/e! Please try not to do any of the bad things and try talking to your friend or writing your feelings down because it worked for me. Your friends are able to help you so you can count on them! x0 If you need anything else lemme know! x0 [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
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