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hopeless and confused
16 female. See I have this feeling like i need to choose between these two guys, and i don't know why because i have nothing to choose from. The guy im with loves me and the other guy doesn't even think about me in that way(anymore), and I know that for sure. And a person once told me, never leave the one you love for the one you like because the one you like will leave you for the one they love. And thats true and some very good advice but in my case the one i'm with isn't the one i love.
So pleaseee tell me why i feel the need to choose when i have no choice to make.
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I know this isn't advice, but i wanted to say thanks....alot. That quote that you put in your question, really answered one that iv had for along time. See im wiht a person who loves me and i love him, but i was recently liking someone on the side. i didnt know wether to break up wiht my love and take a chance wiht my crush or not. But now i know its not worth it and if i do then he'll probably leave me eventually anyway. So thanks that really helped!!! xoxo ash
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Your head is telling you there's no choice, but your heart is screaming at you to leave the one you like for the one you love, no matter what the odds. Your obviously not that happy in your relationship because of your other love, so I think you should dump this guy even if it means you are alone. If you stay with him, it is like you are using him to take your mind off the one you love. Then you should just get the one you love and tell him how you feel. I know you say that he doesn't like you anymore, but you have to tell him how you feel just in case there is a slight chance that he does like you or at least in the future he might. Remember, where there are guys concerned, if it's for you it won't go by you.
Believe me, you will regret it if you don't tell him how you feel. I do. Good luck
Claire xx
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I've had this feeling before, I think.
It's really confusing, so this advice won't be the best...but like you said, you feel so stongly that you have to choose, when there's nothing to choose from.
You may feel like this because you want him, and you want to take a chance, even though you know he doesn't like you like that.
It's hard to explain...
Basically, you know that you have no chance with him, but that's not what your mind is telling you.
It still hasn't got the message yet probably, so hold on, and try to push it out of your mind when you feel this again. Focus on this wonderful guy who loves you=D
Hope I helped to clear things up some.
*Diamyn*
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