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Ok.....I have a friend and she is getting on my nerves! I honestly do not know what to do. I know that she is just like me but Idont know if i like this people being like me. What am I to do..?
Please give me advice!
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I think I know what you're saying, but I can't be completely sure. There's a friend you have that is just like you, you're not only annoyed by this friend, but you don't like the fact that they're just like you?
If that assumtion is wrong, then sorry, reask it, and I'll reanswer. But if not, then I'll try my best.
When I have a problem with someone I do one of two things. I tell them right away how I feel, or I act like a total jerk until another friend lets me know how badly I've been, and makes me be super nice to them until I acutally like them (just did that recently with a teacher, and now... I like her again, amazing how things work)
But really, this is the worst answer someone can get, because nobody likes being told to do this, beacuse nobody knows how to say it, or how to put it without hurting someones feelings, but you have to... Tell her how you feel. Just be like... "Hey girl, I know were good friends and all, but lately I don't know what it is, but you've been seriously getting on my nerves. I know we're a lot a like, and that's also been bugging me. You're super cool and everything, but I like the whole individuality thing, and maybe we can be a little less similar, but still great friends. I love you to death girl, but there's something going on that just annoys me. I can't put my finger on it, but wow, this is hard to say. I'm sorry if I sound rude, but I just wanted to be honest, because you can't have a good friendship without honesty right? I hope you aren't mad at me." I hope that's good. Sorry if I'm not helpful. You can always try asking someone else, or the whole site. Good luck.
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