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hey i like this guy and his best friend told me that he likes me, too. they also said that he likes my best friend. he asked out my best friend a few months ago but she said no b/c i liked him and she wanted to protect me. if he asks me out should i say yes? my friend likes him too and she rejected him so that i wouldnt get hurt and i was wondering if i should say yes or no if he asks me out.... thanks
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wow that's tough. that was really loyal of your friend to do something like that for you. i'm not telling you which one to do but i'm going to say things about each answer, so you choose.
If you say yes
1) your friend might feel betrayed, because she said no for you and then you said yes
2) you might feel guilty for what you did for your friend, but after all you didn't force your friend to say no to him in the first place anyway (did you?)
3) well you get to be your crush's gf =)
4) you may risk a fight between you and your friend
...how much do you like this guy? how much do you care about your friendship?
If you say no
1) you and your friend both prove to each other that you're both loyal =)
2) well you don't get to go out w. your crush =(
3) well that guy might be hurt from 2 girls saying no to him in a row
4) you may feel guilty for not saying yes when you truly wanted to
this is truly are friends more important? or is he? why don't you try talking it over with your friend. i think that's probably the best thing to do. and he hasn't asked you out yet, has he? well but there is a chance he will, since he does ask you. good luck!!
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