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Long distance realtionship
I'm dating a guy he lives in CA I live in Tx. I'm 13 he's 15. We are in a very serious reationship. WE love each other with all our hearts, but latley I have the feeling that he just doesn't care. I'm in a stage where I just stoped cutting myself and I am in desperate need of attention, I know it may sound bitchy but I need attention from my bf. Is that a bad thing. We have been dating for about 18 months. I'm not quite sure what to do. Do I break up with him or stay with him? I'm just to confused. Someone help me
Love,
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OK, first off, your only 13...i know it feels like you've experienced a lot. But i pomise you, you have so much more life to live. I think you should dump this guy...cuz long distance relationship never work out...it sucs but ya. Then find yourself a boy at ur scool. And i know the feeling of needing a guys attention, but you need to become content with yourself and not have to depend on a guy to make you feel good. Make sure that a guy is just a plus in your life, and not something you require to live.
-good luck
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you are 13years old...what makes you think that you're in love?! you're also quite the attention whore...i dont know your story as to why you used to cut yourself but i do know that you sound like someone i know...she only cut herself to get the attention she wasnt getting...and that landed her in a freaking nut house...so take my advice..dont cut urself for attention...and get out of that relationship...if u could even call it a relationship. your 13 you dont need to be "in love" ~!~xoxo~!~nichole~!~xoxo~!~
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well right now i think you should talk to him and ask him what is goin on with you and him tell him you think that you feel like you are slippin away and tell your supposely best friend why dose it feel like that she's not being the friend she used to be!
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Long distance relationships are hard to keep. The simple fact of the matter is that, unless you not only mesh extremely well, really care about each other, kind of need each other on top of that, aren't sex-crazy, don't need the personal/physical aspect as much, etc...things will eventually start to fade away.
I'm not saying it's impossible or it can't work out. But if he's kind of not giving you the attention you need it's not that he doesn't care, but that the major draw may have started to fade. However, if he feels for you like you feel for him, then if you tell him what's bothering you, things should pick up again; I've always made it a point to be there for anyone I know online, regardless of how much it interfered with my personal life.
Breaking up with him would be hard on you unless you have someone else who can give you the same love and support, because at this point in time you're very much in need of someone who obviously loves you for you, and cares more about you than most anyone else. If you don't know such a person, and your boyfriend ends up not picking things up, I don't mind being that person *grins*. But if you have someone closer, that's a much better choice.
Don''t try to go without *anyone*, not at this point in time, it's very hard to do so even if you aren't emotionally high-strung.
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