okay i none this kid Joe for the last 4 years,fell in love with him! i broke up with my boyfriend to go out with joe (but i also broke up with him because i heard he was payed to go out with me!) any way sooo joe asked me out first i said once i break up with my boyfriend,so i did,and then jeo goes "never mind" and his friend robert told me why...because joe thinks i "played" my Ex boyfriend. and he doesn't wanna be played!! i wanna go out with him soo bad! he likes me and all! but how do i get him to beilve i wont play him!
angieroonie answered Wednesday February 16 2005, 12:44 am: tell him he's being ridiculous. say 'why would I have dumped HIM if I was cheating?' just tell him that you had feelings for him and THATS why you broke up with your ex. so you DIDN'T cheat on him.
rainbowsend answered Tuesday February 15 2005, 11:02 pm: Give it some time! Continue to be Joe's friend for at while... show him through your actions that you're a decent girl. Try to tone down your flirting when he's around, and always be genuine and truthful.
Joe has a right to be cautious- many girls DO play games, and you did just dump your ex. So it's up to you to show him that you're a sweet, kind girl and would make a great girlfriend.
Friends first is often the best answer... and since you've already known joe for 4 years, you've got a good solid base. Now you just have to prove to him that you dumped your ex because he was a jerk- not because you're a jerk. [ rainbowsend's advice column | Ask rainbowsend A Question ]
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