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i was wondering if it really hurt the first time you have sex.i am a virgin and my boyfriend really wants me to do it w/ him. but i am not sure if i should the only reaons that are holding me back from doing it is i am afraid that i want be good at at it . could tell me how to do it and what is a good postion 2 do it in.and a nother question that i have is how do u give some one head?
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Hey there. Well you didn't really ask the right person. I don't really know too too much experience wise about sex. A lot of my friends aren't virgins and they say that it does hurt the first time but not that badly. It really depends on how loose you are and just how big he is. If you use tampons that helps a bit too. It is also often that the first time you have sex you may bleed. This is due to the fact that it can break your hynmen. It may or may not break the first time. It varies from girl to girl. The important thing here to focus on is not the fact that you are concerned as to whether or not it will hurt you. The main concern should be the fact that you are having premartal sex. Which is fine, tons of people do it, and that's your choice to make. All I can say is,make sure that you are really really sure about this and understand all the possible outcomes of you having sex at a young age. For example: the condom could break, you could contract an STD, etc. Sex changes a relationship dramatically. You must be sure that both parties involved are absolutely without ANY doubts ready to do it. If there's any doubts you're obviously not ready. When you love someone, sex is going to be great no matter how you do it. Because it's more thanjust sex, it's making love. So keep that in mind. As for the giving head, again only do it if you feel ready. I would suggest going to google.com and typing in "how to give head" there's a link to a step by step way. Best of luck. Be safe. :)
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