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howd you know your wife was right for you?
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Well, that is not exactly the easiest of questions to answer. I mean, we met in college, at first through chance meetings around and about - no big deal. It wasn't until later during freshmen year that we even started dating. I think we hit it off really well, with a lot of common interests and activities. Sophomore year was rockier, mostly due to the stresses of school, and things were fine by the end of that year. We got engaged our senior year and married two years later.
So, how did I know? It just happened. We built a strong friendship first, and added the whole romantic bit on top of that. Too many go for romance first, and totally blow off their friendship. My wife is my best friend. I knew it was "right" because of how well the two of us fit together. And determining that really does take time, and thankfully, we were patient enough to learn what we needed to know about each other to make it work. We'll have been married for 9 years this fall... but together as a couple for 14 (scary thought, eh?).
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