really like this kid.. hes 17 and he has a girlfriend... i am ony 15 but it doesnt matter.. me and this kid went out 2 years ago and then didnt talk for awhile but when i started high school he started to talk to me aagain and wanted to go out with me and .. we didn EVEERYTHING ( had sex ) .. we saw eachother for 4 months and he had a girlfriend the whole time.. they have been going out for a year.. and me and him alwaays get in to fight and ppl say he is only using me which i dont wanna belvie and finally i am not talking to him because i wanna get over him but i dont know how too every night i cry... thinking of everything we went tho . and all the things we didn and he made me happy.. i dont kno what to do . ?? HELP ME
UrFriendlyhOckeyGal answered Friday February 11 2005, 8:54 pm: he is defineltey using you.. dont try to sugarcoat it or anything because you dont deserve that from him. if it was meant to be he would be going out with YOU, not cheating on this other girl. he is not worth your time or your tears.. do your best to move on by hanging out with friends, starting some new sports or something to keep your mind off of him. dont worry you will eventually find a guy who will treat you like you should be treated... hope i helped!! [ UrFriendlyhOckeyGal's advice column | Ask UrFriendlyhOckeyGal A Question ]
bUtTeRfLiEs answered Friday February 11 2005, 6:25 pm: Honey, he is so not worth any of your time! You said it yourself- ya'll two did EVERYTHING, even while he had a girlfriend- how lame is that? This guy is totally pathetic. Just forget about this player. Put your mind on other things. Watch a movie, read a book, do homework, go somewhere with your friends, but whatever you do just forget about this dude, because he is a player. You're only 15, you have your whole life ahead of you to be worrying about guys.
-Hope I helped!-
<*>bUtTeRfLiEs<*>
"When climbing the ladder of success, don't let the boys look up your dress. They will say you're cute and say you're fine but in 9 months they'll say its not mine." <<-Always remember this quote! :) [ bUtTeRfLiEs's advice column | Ask bUtTeRfLiEs A Question ]
lildiamyn_69 answered Friday February 11 2005, 5:33 pm: Whenever I needed to get over someone, it was hard, but it was easier if they had done me wrong a lot.
I just think"I don't want someone who made me unhappy at all." And remember that you deserve someone who can make you happy ALL THE TIME, and you don't deserve to be cheated on.
Arguing is common, but too much is really too much.
Just try not to think of the good things, and it shouldn't be too hard. Good luck:D
*Diamyn* [ lildiamyn_69's advice column | Ask lildiamyn_69 A Question ]
XSugarPieX77 answered Friday February 11 2005, 5:31 pm: Aww dont worry that speacial guy will be in your life soon. Your only 15 its ok that you dont have someone speacial in your life right now. My opinion is that you should start looking for a new guy because its not right to be the girl that someones boyfriend is cheating on with because it could start a massive problem. I went through a problem except it was with a friend and when i wasnt friends with my friend ne more i cried a lot at night. Your in a hard stage in your relationship life but things will get better!
~Brina~ [ XSugarPieX77's advice column | Ask XSugarPieX77 A Question ]
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