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Here is the thing I live with my grandmaw and grandpaw for family reasons well any ways my grandpaw and grandmaw dont trust me because they think if i do any thing then im gonna end up like my mom which wasnt good *well they dont want me to date either*.. so today i went to school and right after school was track but this was my first day so my g*ma n g*pa didnt know i was going. so i tried to call but the line was busy so i juss came any way. so after track i walked home and my g*pa was like lets talk about your "boy friend" and im like i dont have a b/f and hes like then who is the guy that keeps callin here and i said my friend friend. he wants my friends # but im not givin it to him. and he was like well who is the guy that always walk u hom after skool n i said my moms friends son *and me n him r really close so he always walks me home* and the point is he thought that i was having sex with him like my mom was doin when she was my age andhe doesnt beleive me that im not like her! so what do i do to make them beleive me?
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make him realize that you are trustworthy. get teachers to write lettters home that say how trustworthy you are ]
Tell him hes a stubborn old piece of shit that you hope drops over very soon. Look, your grandpas an ass, if he cant accept the truth YOUR ALREADY TELLING HIM then hes a piece of shit. ]
You need to tell them that this guy is just a friend and there is nothing going on between you two. Tell them that you aren't like your mother when she was little and that you know what do as in from right to wrong. You should probably start walking home without this guy, just so your grandparents will know that you are telling the truth. Also tell them that you called them to tell them that you had track but the line was busy. Hope I helped :)
-Karen ]
just tell them whats up and what you were really doing after school,and that u tried to call but they were on the phone.if they dont believe you do something that will make them trust u ]
I had the same "your going to end up just like your mother" problem. You need to tell him that you two are just friends. You also need to explain to them that you are not your mother and that you can not be held responsible for her actions. Tell him that you are your own person not your mother and that he raised you better than to be having sex. It might sound a little stupid, but it worked for me.
Best of Luck!
heddo ]
wow! big problem why don't you just tell him that nothing is gonig on with u guys. or just stop walkin home with him 4 a couple weeks/mnts. that way he will think you listened to him. please if you need anymore help or anything else you can send a comment just to me! ]
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