ok, kassie,i have like a million and 6 problems. wow, so my first one is, i like this guy , and he says he likes me, and i believe him. the bad thing is, is that he has a bad rep. and he's known for lieing to girls just to get them to do stuff. and he usually does it to like 5 girls at a time. he always tells me that he's not like that anymore. 1 of my best friend tells me not to believe him. she seems to be always getting into my buisness. like not even important shit. ok well, i believe him cause hes not with anyother girls and calls me everyday. he always tells me that he wants to start a long term relationship and i really want to too. i want to soo unbelievably bad. i think i might be in love. another problem is, no matter how much i like a person, im too nervous to do anything with them , even have them over to my house. i hate when i do that, and i always make excuses, even when i want to hang out with that person. well, ive been having a pretty tough 6 months, and im just wondering if you could help. so finally, my question is, do you think he actually wants to start a relationship? or does he just want to hook up? i need to know soon...
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? WhatUwerDreaminOf answered Tuesday February 8 2005, 10:14 pm: well he might have changed you never know until you see for yourself.. but it seems like ur friend is just worried about you.. and she sound like she knows what shes talking about.. but i dont know.. its your choice.. i cant tell you what to do because i dont know you or who this guy is.. but if he has this Reputation then it probably hasn't changed.. but all i can say is if you go for it and you get hurt by him.. then the only person you can blame is yourself for getting into something with a guy who has a bad reputation with girls.. sorry this isn't much help.. but like i said i dont know you or him.. but to me it just sounds like he just wants some action, and i would stay far from him.. but its ur choice.. if you get hurt.. you can only blame urself.. because you have a friend who's worried about you and whos trying to help!!
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