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Question Posted Monday February 7 2005, 6:24 pm

I'm 15 and I live in Oklahoma. I think I have feelings for someone in the grade below me. Naturally, most people would say that's alright, right? Well I have a brother in his grade and he has a brother in my grade and somehow those factors make it a bit awkward..

Is this okay that I have feelings for someone who is a little younger than me? I really can't help it.. He really makes me laugh and we get in trouble for talking in class and he has gorgeous eyes and the most adorable smile... and he's pretty much the opposite of all the other guys I've had interest in.

My other problem is that I think I still have feelings for my ex-boyfriend. We're still good friends and I'm generally one of the only girls he talks to. He'd tell me he loved me so much and I thought I could see in his eyes that he meant it. Then, SUDDENLY he ended it, but I don't see how you could stop having feelings for someone that quickly! Did he just never love me, or do you think it's possible he still does?


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katholeen answered Tuesday February 8 2005, 8:59 am:
Hmm... Well, first of all, for this guy who's younger than you, I would say it's fine. If you really think he's that great, it shouldn't matter how old he is... I'm not sure if this will be relevant/irrelevant to the situation, but my mom is 8 years older than my dad =O but they're still happily married and everything's fine... Right now it might seem weird to date someone younger than you, but in a few years it will be perfectly normal anyways, so give it a shot!

As for your ex-boyfriend-
Did you ever ask him why he broke up with you? Write him an e-mail or a note asking and seeing what exactly went wrong...

The ultimate decision: who do you like more, the younger guy or your ex? And, if it is your ex, does he still love you?
I hope I helped, IM me on TobleroneKiddo if you need more advice! Good luck!

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