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how do i get over him?
OK im a female 14 years old. Last year i really loved this guy who didnt go to my school but we saw each other alot because he was best friends with my neighbor. Him and i went out for about 4 month for me its was a longest relationship i ever had and he was my first kiss and stuff and then we broke up because he thought i liked another guy well i kind of did but not really and when the guy i was going out with dumped me i didnt really care but then maybe a week went by and i saw him again and brought up alot of memories back but we werent together anymore. After that day i realized how much i want to be with him and how much he means to me. I called him and told him that me liking other guy wasnt true and he said okay and i dont think he cAred then i heard from someone he likes me againa then next time i saw him he didnt. I still liked him alot but we jsut didnt see each other at all over the summer. Well next year(this year) i go to his school and he is on 2 of my classes so i see him alot and everytime i see him i get the memories back. My biggest wish in this whole world if we would go out again then i will be the happies i ever been. Well i had a little chance before getting back together but now he is going out with this girl that he went out last year right before we went out and he dumped her for me but not they are back together. I dont know what to do because ive tried to move i had alot of bf`s after him when his first gf after me was liek a year after we broke up and ya well i want to get back with him together but im not sure if its possible so should i just keep on trying to move or keep on trying to get him back???? plz i really need help i like that guys for over year and a half now and i cant tell him that cuz he has a gf that im really good friends.
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Under current conditions, you probably can't get with him. At least you can't without betraying your friend, and you shouldn't do that because it's not a very nice thing to do. I'd say move on and just stay friends with him, and if something happens in the future it'll happen. Good luck hun.
-Farren
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ok if his gf is your friend you need to tell her and if shes your real friend she wont date him but if she not like one of the people that you talk to every onec ina while then you need to tell him or you just have to let go of him xoxo love *kristen*
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woah!!!this is a hard question but i have the anwser...look move on, for now!!Once he is free, go after him like a shark goes after blood haha!Telll him that you really like him and that he is the only one u have been thinking about since you brooke up with ur last boyfriend! I know it will work, if it doesnt build a better friendship and that will lead you two to being g/f and b/f!Glad i could be of assistance!!!
Letsy Diane*
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If you haven't gotten any signals from him then he moved on and can care less about you. And you shouldn't do anything now anyway because your friends with this girl and if you still want to be then let it be. If they break up, then flirt with him hang out and talk and see how he reacts if he shows no interest then it’s a waste of time. By the way you always want what you can't have that’s why he started meaning so much more to you after you lost him then when you had him.
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Ok well just to tell you that is really confusing, but i think i understood. I think you should definitly talk to him about it. Even thought your really good friends with his girlfriend, he should atleast know you still like him. And if he doesn't show that he cares you should definitly move on. Hope i helped !
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