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OK im a female 14 years old. Last year i really loved this guy who didnt go to my school but we saw each other alot because he was best friends with my neighbor. Him and i went out for about 4 month for me its was a longest relationship i ever had and he was my first kiss and stuff and then we broke up because he thought i liked another guy well i kind of did but not really and when the guy i was going out with dumped me i didnt really care but then maybe a week went by and i saw him again and brought up alot of memories back but we werent together anymore. After that day i realized how much i want to be with him and how much he means to me. I called him and told him that me liking other guy wasnt true and he said okay and i dont think he cAred then i heard from someone he likes me againa then next time i saw him he didnt. I still liked him alot but we jsut didnt see each other at all over the summer. Well next year(this year) i go to his school and he is on 2 of my classes so i see him alot and everytime i see him i get the memories back. My biggest wish in this whole world if we would go out again then i will be the happies i ever been. Well i had a little chance before getting back together but now he is going out with this girl that he went out last year right before we went out and he dumped her for me but not they are back together. I dont know what to do because ive tried to move i had alot of bf`s after him when his first gf after me was liek a year after we broke up and ya well i want to get back with him together but im not sure if its possible so should i just keep on trying to move or keep on trying to get him back???? plz i really need help i like that guys for over year and a half now and i cant tell him that cuz he has a gf that im really good friends.

woah!!!this is a hard question but i have the anwser...look move on, for now!!Once he is free, go after him like a shark goes after blood haha!Telll him that you really like him and that he is the only one u have been thinking about since you brooke up with ur last boyfriend! I know it will work, if it doesnt build a better friendship and that will lead you two to being g/f and b/f!Glad i could be of assistance!!!
Letsy Diane*

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hey im 15 and my friend roxie and me got into this fight. we tried to work it out or at least i did and we havent talked for months now. weve been trying to build our friendship again but somehow i feel like im not good enough. she has all these friends now..well i used to be friends with some but i guess not anymore. im told im a shy person..i even admit to it. i hate hanging out with the same person i hang out with everyday. no one likes her and shes nothing like me..i guess you could say shes a geek but i dont want to ruin my whole year hanging arounf with her just cause i feel sorry for her. i want to be more popular. im average. if i was my friend might see me as a better friend since im more up to date..but im shy and not everyone likes me..wat do i do to become this..non shy person ..this popular person

Make your shy side get aside. I guess what you could say im saying is that you should really start talking to pople you dont know and become good friends with everyone. In time when u feel your ready go up and talk to roxie and tell her how much she ment to you that she was your frined and im sure that would give you guys a great lift off!Glad i could help!!
Letsy Diane*

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