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Should I stay or come back? HELP!!!
Okie my name is Samantha and I am 16 years old. This coming up summer my best friend and I are going to California to see my ex boyfriend and she said that if we go that she doesnt know if she will come back and then I said if she dont then I wont. There is more to the story but I will just give to the jist of it. My ex bf moved away almost a year ago and we dated, but broke up last october because of the distance but we are much in love with eachother. And his mother always said that if I ever needed somewhere to stay, then I could live with them. What I am saying is it would be much to hard to leave my ex bc we would have everything that we both would want because otherwise we have to wait a few years to be together. If I can I am going to stay in cali and not come back to wisconsin. I told my mom about it and she really didnt say much. Should I change my whole life for someone im in love with and who is in love with me. We both will do anything for eachother, so moving and living there wouldnt be that hard for me because my life here is a wreck and I want to move to cali and find myself. I may be only 16 but I need to find out what I want to do with my life. What should I do. Stay in cali or come back once I go?
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have you ever concidered that if you are both so much in love with each other, why he can't come where you are? why do you have to travel half way accross the US to see someone that you don't even know if it'll work out in the end??
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don't ask a question that you don't want an honest answer to, if his father beat him then he needs to be in jail why isn't he? i guess he must not be to hurt by the fact that he was abused then is he?? think about it then next time you bitch at someone for telling you honestly what you should do, and here's a thought you uptight pathetic excuse of a GIRL you can't move out of your house until you're 18 without your parents concent and if your mother has any brains at all in her head, which i'm thinking she doesn't since look how you turned out, then she won't let you leave since you obviously aren't ready
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IF love was meant to be, it will find a way
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hey, if ya want to move and live in california then do it, ur 16 and you could have more fun there.
if ur mom n dad dont like it, then say, its my own life and i will keep in contact with you, or something like that.
hope i helped xXxXxXxXx
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follow your heart babe.. your heart is never wrong :)
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You are only 16 once. Try being a kid. If your boyfriend and you are so in love, you will still have those feelings in another couple of years when you are able to make your own decisions as an adult.
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You are basing too much of your life on a man. You should decide what's good for you based on you.
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