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unloved and lonely.
I feel so lonely. I'm 14 and never had a boyfriend. Never. There's one boy who unfortunately likes me - but i really hate him. He's immature and.. well, a geek :| I'm quite ugly, but recently i've straightened my hair and people have told me it looks nice. But I feel as though I'm desperate to be loved or something. I feel really upset and worthless when I see other couples together, like I'm jealous, I feel like crying because I know that it'll never happen to me. I know I'm only 14 and all, but most girls my age have at least had a boyfriend! I just want to feel loved.. sorry if that sounds pathetic but that's what I feel like. they say there's someone for everyone out there, but I guess some people were made to be single. I don't want to be single, it's like my life isn't worth living. Please help :/
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Aw, honey, you don't sound pathetic. You sound like me when I was around twelve or thirteen, I think. I had a crush on one guy for three years (sad, I know).
You should never feel like your life isn't worth living! All lives are. On top of that, I doubt you're "quite ugly." You sound like you've got a few self-confidence issues, if you'll forgive my presumptions. That could be part of why guys don't go for you - low confidence in girls makes guys not want to approach them. Scientifically proven...sort of...by yours truly. ^_^
I understand the jealousy. That was how I felt in tenth grade, and a little through eleventh. I'd denied myself guys but by eleventh grade, I developed a crush on my current boyfriend in the beginning of the year, and when I saw couples together, I wanted that. Wanting to be loved is totally natural, and expected.
I agree with the fact that there's someone out there for everyone, and there's someone out there for you! You said it yourself - you're only fourteen, you have years and years. I have about three friends who haven't had a boyfriend and they're all my age. Don't dwell on it. Just be yourself - you do sound like an interesting person, and I'm sure some guy who likes you (besides this guy you don't like, lol) will see that and like you because of it.
Be more confident, sweetie. You've gotta love yourself before you can truly love anyone else. Someone can love you as much as they want, but trust me on this - you won't feel all the emotion towards them unless you love yourself. I had this problem for awhile, but my boyfriend taught me to love myself, and I've never been happier alone, or with anyone in my entire life. Be an optimist. You'll find someone!
If you want someone to vent to, or anything you can IM me at SirenCytherea. I'm usually on every night. I hope this helps on some level!
-Siren =)
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