See theres this girl, say her name is Lucy, see Lucy stole my bf a about a 1/2 year ago, She treats him like crap, never talks to him and is always blowing him off. I still hang out with him all the time and he loves it, and i think hes falling in love with me agian, because hes always smiling at me and his eyes are always twinkleing and he calls me and hes always so happy to see me. hes always talking to his friends about me and how great i am and stuff (and i am not that great). and i dont know what to do, could i possibly be the bad one?
Spurgirl14 answered Thursday January 27 2005, 8:00 pm: Make sure that you do really care about him because you don't want to lead him on to just get back at his gf. Ask him how he feels about you and how he feels about his gf. Ask him if he likes being with you more than being with his own gf. If the responses are good, then tell him how you feel. [ Spurgirl14's advice column | Ask Spurgirl14 A Question ]
blondeambition answered Thursday January 27 2005, 5:08 pm: Unless you're purposly attempting to steel him back for revenge, no, you're not a bad person. I think the question you need to ask yourself is do you still love him. If you're answer is yes, and if his reactions to spending time with you are as you say, than I suggest you confront him. That's the only way you can know for sure. If you don't feel comofortable with that, talk to a mutual friend, or just a friend that's close to him who you know. Just remember, if you want to get back into a relationship with this boy, realize there is always the chance he will leave you again. I hope I helped! Good luck! [ blondeambition's advice column | Ask blondeambition A Question ]
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