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I'm....intimidated (?) by him...
The guy I'm dating is sooo much better than me in so many ways. He's in all the really smart classes at school, he's so sweet to his mom, he's really responsible... I feel like such a ditz around him, and I don't know if this bothers him or not. I mean, I guess it's like the whole Nick Lachey/Jessica Simpson thing, but I don't know if my guy will be able to tolerate it as well as Nick. I like this guy more than I can explain, and I REALLY want it to last and be a long-term kind of thing. So, I guess my question is: How can I find out if it bothers him or not? How can I stop being such a DITZ???
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first of all, dont stop being a ditz. if your going out with him, that means he likes you, which means that for some reason, he likes you being a ditz. maybe with you he can stop acting like he normally does,like a goodygoody or w/e, and just have fun. i doubt it bothers him that your a ditz or else you wouldnt be going out.
-kristin
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ask him if it bothers him...just be yourself you shouldnt change for someone else
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It really doesn't matter if you're a ditz or not. Make a joke about it. If you want to find out if it bothers him just ask. Ask him for an honest answer. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck
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The best and simplest way to find out if it bothers him or not is to ask him...trust me, I did it. Lol. I used to be calm, cool, and collected all the time, but around my boyfriend, I felt (and still feel like) such a klutz, and a total ditz. I've seriosuly tripped over my own feet, and he caught me when I fell. Just ask him "Hey [your guy's name here], you know, sometimes I feel like a total ditz and all around you...does it ever bother you?"
My guy thinks it's cute. >.< (which is almost as nervewracking as not liking it, lol)
As to how you can stop being such a ditz, if I knew, I wouldn't have this problem. Lol. If I find a solution, I'll help you out...but for now, revel in your ditziness. It's entertaining. And, if all else fails, blame him for your ditziness. That's what I do. Lol. I hope this helps on some level!
-Siren =)
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well your just being youself and if he goes out with you he must like being around you and it must be stressful to him to be like good all the time so when hes around you it must be like he could do anything and if it makes eachother laugh then thats great .. hope i helped <3 debbie
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Well, you're probably just worrying about nothing. If you've been a ditz from the beginning and he still went out with you, then it probably never bothered him in the first place. The only way you can stop being a ditz is to conciously make a change. There's not always something wrong with being a ditz either. I think you are just being insecure, but if it really bothers you then just ask him if he thinks you are a ditz and if it bothers him. I don't see why there'd be a problem in being straight forward about it.
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