my best guy friend, who i am kinda in love with (he doesnt know) is fallin for another girl..and he keeps saying he loves her and its KILLING me...
hes even askin for my advice with what to do about her.
i give it but i dont no what to do. do you no wot i mean? cause if i give him the advice he'll get the girl but when i dont he keeps asking me whats up and stuff.
and hes so happy coz she nos he loves her...and she had a good response to him although they arent going out yet...so hes so damn happy. and i do NOT wanna make him unhappy by saying 'hey remember me? well i love you more than you love her'. because thats just not how it works. and it would probly offend him.
wot do i do?
i dont even no if i rly love him. i mean...he is the first thing on my mind in the mornin and the last thing at night, however dumb that sounds...and i am so upset hes with sumone else...but hes happy n that makes me feel happy too!!!! except i just wish he could be happy with me.
pluuus we hav never met...just online...thru a datin agency...(im 18)...can you be in love with someone you neva met? cause i am sooo in love with his personality...i do not care wot he looks like although i have sin pics. and spoke on webcam and the phone, texted etc. but hes so funny and caring and kind...
but my q is...do i act on thinkin maybe i am in love n ask him out before he actually goes out with this otha girl? or do i not...do i let it go by?
xoih3artyouxo answered Sunday January 23 2005, 11:33 am: hey girl!! i no what your talking about and its sucks!! well i would just tell him how you feel and ask him out and since you love him for his personality thats good! i would not let this go by you! but if he says yes you should try to met him in person and if he says no then i would just move on since you have not even met him yet. i would definitly ask him out!! good luck and i hope i helped!
xOx morgan [ xoih3artyouxo's advice column | Ask xoih3artyouxo A Question ]
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