ok well i kinda did stuff with this guy and afterwards we were like never not fighting and it was the gayest stuff too! okay well he like stoped talking to me and then i was like why are you being such an ass to me and he was like cause you are a bitch. and he just wont talk to me and i really want to talk to him and golly! it just makes me mad and i dont know if i should just be like you know what i dont care anymore or if i should keep trying to get him to talk to me.. cause i really do care! GAH!
any suggestions?
Farren answered Saturday January 22 2005, 2:39 am: People these days don't understand the concept of neutrality. You don't -have- to be friends with him. If someone annoyed me I wouldn't want to hang out with them either, and keeping up with annoying him just makes it worse. Okay, he doesn't want to be friends, but it's not like he's acting like an enemy and plotting plans against you, he just wants to be neutral. Neutral means no confrontation, no problems. You don't have to be friends with everyone, and not being friends doesn't have to mean being enemies.
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lildiamyn_69 answered Saturday January 22 2005, 1:58 am: well, something's obviously wrong w/him.
it might hurt a little, but i don't think you should try to talk sense into someone who doesn't seem to care about you anymore. But don't worry, you'll find someone wayyyy better than him. Sooner or later:D [ lildiamyn_69's advice column | Ask lildiamyn_69 A Question ]
sublime_burritos answered Saturday January 22 2005, 1:08 am: wow! ok the exact same thing happened to me just a couple weeks ago. its hard to answer without knowing how close you were to this guy. but it happened with me and my boyfriend, we'd be pissed at each other for hours over the stupidest things...you need to try to see if there's a pattern with all the fighting, it turned out that there was a bigger issue on his mind and without knowing it he was just really edgy, after i pointed out what was going on he was really cool about it and we stopped fighting. if you care let him know that, but if he wants his space don't push yourself at him until he's ready to talk, and if he's never ready then just move on and don't stress over him. hope i helped <3 [ sublime_burritos's advice column | Ask sublime_burritos A Question ]
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