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Birthday...
My friends birthday is coming up and she is spanish and the majority of her friends is black and my mom is predgiduce and when I go to her birthday I am scared on what my mom might think or do. Any advice for what I should do when the big day comes? Im sorta scared...
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Just get your mother to somehow...drop you off there or just not stay at the party. Also Tell her about how you feel.
Hope it helps,
Gabby
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you should let your mom how you feel and why you feel that way. then ask her for some good reasons why she feels that way about certain people. when the day comes, show your mom that they are your friends and are no different from any of your other race friends. she should respect your point of view, and you should respect hers, so dont argue her down or anything. just try to get your point across.
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First try and explain to your mom why prejudice is wrong, and how your friend looks has no reflection on how they really are inside. Your friends are equal to everyone else, and how they look shouldn't determine how much your mom likes them. Just try explaining your opinions to your mom, if she respects you she'll at least try and understand.
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just tell your mom that she is one of your good friends and there should be no reason why you cant go to her birthday party just tell her that it really means alot to you and you would really appretiate it if she would let you go and not make a big scene.see what she says
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Well since your mother is prejudice maybe you can get one of her white friends to take you or just tell your mom say "look i know that you dont like blacks very much but i happen to like them and i want to go to this party so just dont say anything and just act the same" and if that doesnt help just say u cant do anything that day and just go somewhere with her to make up
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