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please help guy troubles
14/f Hey well there is this one guy who i serioulsy really really really like...everyone knows I like him... even his friends most likely...well the problem is I have liked him for a really long time...and alot of ppl want me to get over him... but I dont know how... i tried looking at other guys but for some reason when i start to like another guy I suddenly stop and go back to likeing him...i have never gone out with him which really sucks cause i really want too... ok well we dont talk that much at school but we talk on the phone...ok usaully when i talk to him we talk for at least a half hour at least unless he has to go... well the other day i called him and i think he was being kinda rude...(i havent told anyone especially my best friends cause they dont really like him and if isay something that will just make me sad cause they will say good get over him and i dont wanna cry...cause that will make me cry...)ok back to where i was he said something that hecka made me sad...so i like hung up the phone and like started crying.... i wanna talk to him again but i cant tell him that he made me cry... cause i dont think he has realized how much i do really like him... also i know he doesnt like me cause i know who he does like and know that he wants to go out with her..(she has everything i want)ok so heres another thing i havent called him since then and yea its just been like 5 days and i dont know if i should even talk to him anymore on the phone cause he makes me hecka sad what should i do???
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Well your situation sounds unbelievably familiar to me. :-/ It sounds like you like him very much, but it also sounds like he's a little bit of a jerk. If he matters this much to you pray, either that or talk to one of your best friends and tell them that right then is not the moment to be critical of him. Tell them you just need someone to listen and to console you, not beat up your crush. I also think that you should call him back. Just don't get your hopes up and don't give him the oppurtunity to hurt you again. It sometimes takes a little while (or sometimes forever) for some people to see the good things they have right in front of them. I hope I helped a little and good luck. Remember: Don't keep your feelings inside. They well up inside, and make your heart feel like a heavy weight instead of the cloud that it is. ~*AmAnDa*~
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