Question Posted Wednesday January 12 2005, 4:32 pm
i told this girl i liked her alot nowing she woodnt like me back like that...she deosnt like me like that just as i thought....i wanna win her over....how can i...please answer quickly
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? MyPainIsReal answered Wednesday January 12 2005, 6:00 pm: It's hard to win a girl over if she doesn't like you to be honest about it. You need to find some common ground between you two if you ever want to win her over. You need to be able to start conversation as friends and be interested in what each other are talking about to have a relationship. Is this girl your friend? Do you talk often? That can also determine your chances. Work on that. Also, try showing her that you can be a caring person in ways such as offering to take her lunch tray up for her or just plain saying hi, how you are in the hall way. If she is upset and confinds in you, try and be there for her to the best of your abilities or if you see that she is upset ask if she needs someone to talk to, that you'll be there for her if she needs it. Girls like guys who can be there for them in times of need seeings we are very very emotional at times. Compliment her! Make her feel good about herself and who she is and that you think shes a good person and such. Don't over do the niceness of doing things for her, that annoys girls. Do not do anything like hitting her butt and such unless you KNOW she likes that which she probably does not. If someone boy is being a ass to her, stick up for her but don't be rude or obnoxious about it. Don't be too forward about liking her and stuff, give her, her space and let her decide if she likes you. You can't just win her over just like that I'm sure you know. It takes time. She may never like you. So don't feel too awfully let down if your attempts do not turn out good. Girls know what they want, and if she wants you, she'll let you know in time. Hope I helped a little.<3 [ MyPainIsReal's advice column | Ask MyPainIsReal A Question ]
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