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boyfriend and friend
I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. lately, he has been talking to one of my best friends on the phone all the time. i know there is nothing going on but its bothering me really bad because now it feels like i dont even talk to my friend anymore .. she tells him her "girl talk" and secrets now...like she used to do with ME!!... and last night me and him got in an argument because i confronted him about it. Right now, i am not talking to him as of today. He also tells me not to call his house late, past around 10 because his family goes to bed...but last night he called me around 1 in the morning and while i was on the phone with him...MY FRIEND clicked through...on his line..at ONE in the morning, when he tells me not to call that late!!! i was really mad. I'm not sure what to do. I ususally wouldn't be mad if he were friends with my friends. But, it's gone too far. It's almost as if he's taking them away from me. He talks to them more than I do now, and they call HIM more than they call ME now. This is happening with 2 of my friends. One of them, I was absolute best friends with for years but we drifted apart after a while, and now they talk all the time. And, the other friend, we have been friends for a while too, and we aren't BEST friends and were not as close as we used to be...but we're still friends..and he's talking to HER too as well. I need to know your opinions on this one please.
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well if your friends dont treat you the same any more. Then more than likely they are trying to steal him from you thats what happened to me. Just be careful and watch them.
Christine15
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All's fair in love and war. You've been together 3 years and he should respect your feelings... and this is making you uncomfortable. He doesn't understand women, like we women do, and to be straight up with you - they are after your man. He's probably flattered with the attention, but if he really cares about you he'll put a stop to it. He's leading them on and they are probably jumping at any little negative thing about you that may come up. Like they are so sweet and would treat him better, etc. These girls are definitely NOT your friends, dump them!
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